I can be both as I enjoy pegging. Someone who can chill with me in a game lobby, laugh at my dumb jokes, and be ok with dark humor. Some of my favorite positions are...doggy,missionary,girl on top. You won't be able to get me to spread my legs.
I am intelligent, educated, creative, sensitive, sensual, serious, silly and i love to write, spend time with my cats, and enjoy quiet and not-so-quiet circles of friends i spend time with. Free account so you have to message or friend request me first lol Just be nice tbh, it goes a long way.